The Book of Mormon

We had an exciting celebration tonight when we read the last 3 verses of the Book of Mormon as a family. Wahoo!

I love this picture because it shows what family scripture study is really like… kids being kids – nobody holding still. Eliza is happy, by the way (and she crawled right out of her pants during scripture reading. ha-ha).

Occasionally we have a heart-felt conversation about what we are reading and the older kids “get” it. But we’ve had lots of rushed evening scriptures when little ones are restless. Overall, reading the scriptures together as a family is good. And I’m counting on blessings for our perseverance (is that bad?).

We can’t remember exactly when we started reading the Book of Mormon as a family. We used to read the summarized scripture story books with pictures. We cruised through those so fast. I believe it was when Hannah was in Kindergarten (2008) that we decided to start reading the actual book with the kiddos. Max & Truman repeat what we say and they love having their turn. I remember when Abe started reading verses on his own. Cute memories.

We read one column a night… with 530 pages, that would take 1,060 nights of reading = about 3 1/2 years give or take a few. Wow… that’s a long time. But we accomplished our goal. So now what? Hannah wants to read the New Testament together. I guess we’ll see. I know it’s so important for us to all read the Book of Mormon daily so maybe it’s a good time to better encourage personal Scripture Study for the tots.

I was thinking about President Benson tonight. I love hearing his voice. I put together a few clips from one of his talks about the Book of Mormon. I love how he says “The Book of Mormon.” What a great message!

Today during morning devotional I shared the story about the Nephites living in the land of Helam – and how they were in bondage to the Lamanites. We talked about how they prayed in their hearts… the Lord blessed them to bear their burdens with cheer and patience. And then they were promised that they would be freed on the morrow. What a miracle. There was no way they could have escaped from the Lamanites except with the Lord’s help. They just walked out of there while the Lamanites slept. I only read part of the story and the kids were anxious to know how it ended. I was glad they were into it. There is power in Book of Mormon Stories.

Broken Arm 2012

Let’s try this again: “How was your trip?”

Wow… that wasn’t my most positive post ever.

Let’s go with … Take 2.

This, I remember.

Saturday.
It seemed like such a long day.
Driving with trees down and no stop lights.
No A/C.
Reception at the barn.
Basketball at the church.
Adjusting to the time change.
Finally. Bed.

I laid in bed and thought about Tender Mercies. I knew we had been blessed.

1. The Lewis’s (where we stayed) had a generator. So even though the power went out right as soon as we arrived, the generator kicked in and thus we had lights, refrigerated food, and fans. Bless those marvelous fans. The Lewis’s are such marvelous people to let all of us bombard their home. We Smiths had 16 kids and 6 adults who stayed there.

2. We really had the best sleeping arrangements. So even though my kids were unsettled being away from home, it was the best situation for us. We had the isolated apartment in their home with laundry facilities, a fridge, kitchen. The boys stayed in one room with bunk beds. Truman had the cutest toddler bed that he loved. Hannah slept on the couch and it was comfortable for her. Zuzu stayed in the pack-n-play in our bedroom closet. It was great!

3. Our initial flight TO Maryland actually was quite successful. Tru didn’t freak out in the airport. He didn’t get scared on the plane. He just vegetated and played on the ipod most of the flight. Zuzu slept for a bit on the flight and woke up happy. We were all able to sit by each other. John and Michael sat by us and helped with the kids. We were able to manage luggage (thanks for my mom for helping us at the airport… and Mary and Phil picking us up in Baltimore). The kids did their best to help haul everything.

4. Max loved Aunt Mary. He kept talking with her, holding her hand, staying nearby. He loved her. Plus Everyone loved Rosie.

5. Once Hannah got over being shy, she quite enjoyed herself with Danielle & Christine. There aren’t many girlies in the Smith Family and Hannah ends up right in between the littles and the teens. They did well including her.

6. Tru really liked some of the uncles. Here he is with Stephen & Brock.

7. Loved all the corn fields & GREEN! It made us want to buy a bunch of land in the country.

8. Eliza was a peach… a real gem. Yes, traveling with a baby is tricky, but she was about as good as she could be. She didn’t even cry on our hot hard day in D.C. Blessings!

9. Brothers got to compete. The older brothers ended up winning the younger brothers.

10. As expensive as it was to buy six round-trip tickets at $500 a piece. Choke! We were so grateful for the family members who chipped in so we could do it. And because the Lewis’s were so generous with letting us stay in their home, we didn’t have to pay for a hotel. And they let us use one of their minivans so we didn’t have to rent one. These folks made our stay so much better & cheaper. Thank you friends.

11. Lydia really liked Eliza and would always come give her kisses. Here she is showing Eliza her fancy 4th of July fingernail polish.

12. Abe was riding down a new hill on a new bike and didn’t anticipate how steep it was. He tumbled and rolled and scraped everything. He came in with a hanging arm, a bruised head and knee, and scraped shoulder and back. I thought his arm was totally broken as he couldn’t move anything … eventually we thought it might be sprained, but it still was swollen and hurt so much by the time we got home, that we had it x-rayed. Fractured. He got his cast today. Oh – but the tender mercy is… I’m so grateful it wasn’t worse. He was able to sleep well and hang in there on the rest of the trip despite the pain. We didn’t have to fiddle with an emergency room visit. He was a champ!

13. Despite how hot and drained we were from being unaccustomed to the humidity, I’m eternally grateful for the A/C we had, all the gatorade, water, and milkshakes. The kids enjoyed a popsicle every time we got in the hot car to go somewhere. Hurray for COLD!

13. What a cool opportunity for all the cousins to be together. I’m so glad my kids know them a bit better.

There are many more tender mercies from this trip that I haven’t mentioned. We are so blessed… this I know.

“How was your trip?”

I’ve been asked this a few times since arriving home Saturday night.

My answer:
“HARD”.

Isn’t that horrible?

Then I correct myself,
“Give me a week to forget how HARD it was, and then I’ll remember all the fun we had.”

“Why was it hard?”

“Oh, I don’t know… It just was.
Early mornings, late nights.
Storm that unsettled kids… no a/c for 1 1/2 days.
Did Tru eat anything but Chicken nuggets and granola bars?
100 degree temps with 90% humidity… record breaking heat.
Airport tantrums that left Tru and Mom crying.
Tired people. Broken Arm.
etc.”

I guess I’m a bit too weary.

I’m really glad we went to Maryland.
I AM!

All 11 living siblings were there. Cousins actually know each other a bit now. I loved chatting with sister-in-laws. We saw so much GREEN… and corn, and trees. The Beach. It really was a great adventure.

I guess the Fun comes with the HARD. We learn from all experiences.

So – “what did you do,” you ask?

Friday – Day 1 – Fly to Maryland – A Bit of Anxiety from the Littles

Saturday – Day 2 – Peter & Jennies Wedding in the D.C. Temple – By Lantern-light… the Power was out.

Sunday – Day 3 – Sacrament Meeting at home with Bishop Lewis. The church power was out. Testimonies by adults and a few tots. Family Picnic at Grandparents in Frederick.

Monday – Day 4 – Ocean City, Maryland Beach… loved by all (well, except Liza)

Tuesday – Day 5 – Crabbing on Chesapeake Bay … BBQ at Phil & Mary’s.

Wednesday – Day 6 – 4th of July. Big Slide … Frederick Fireworks.

Thursday – Day 7 – Storm clean-up at the Lewis’s. Swimming. Visit Great Grandma Smith. Birthday Party for David & Caleb. BBQ with Jimmy’s cousins. Oh – Abe broke his arm (only we weren’t certain until the next Monday).

Friday – Day 8 – Adventure in Washington D.C. Lots of walking. Tru was freaking out. Will never go to museums in D.C. again with children under age 5. It was a bazillion degrees. I would have died as a pioneer. The end.

Saturday – Day 9 – Pack it up. Head out. Freak out in the airport (thanks to Tru). Tears from Mom. Can’t all sit together… but it all worked out in the end. So Happy to be Home!!!

Oh – and we missed our garden. It grew while we were gone.

I have something crazy – like 700 pictures from our trip. And Jimmy’s mom had about 600. So, we should have a Jim-Dandy photo book to represent all 43 Smiths who were present. Rock on!

Smith Family Reunion 2012

Happy Father’s Day!

He is the MAN!
Who else could endure a Father’s Day with less than awesome food
(good thing the way to Jimmy’s heart isn’t through his stomach!).
Who else would be fine speaking in church last minute on father’s day?
Who else would be nice about me doing my calling for half the afternoon on father’s day (go visiting teaching changes – ugg!)?

Jimmy.

he is awesome.
love ya babe.

Freebie Day at This is the Place

Best idea ever was going right at 9 when the park opened. The crowds didn’t arrive until 10:30 or 11. We took off at 12:30 so we didn’t see everything … but it was enough to constitute a fun family adventure. Tru and Max wanted to just keep riding the train. Hannah wanted to see the Native American Dancers. And Abe got a real shave at the barber shop.  I just wanted to pull a handcart. Though that didn’t happen, we had fun … and enjoyed the free day and free ice cream.

See how tired poor Eliza is. She cried and then zonked after her ice cream cone.

An excerpt from Utah’s State song “Utah, This Is the Place” (who knew we had a state song?):

It was Brigham Young who led the pioneers across the plains.
They suffered with the trials they had to face.
With faith they kept on going till they reached the Great Salt Lake
Here they heard the words…”THIS IS THE PLACE!”

“is it mom clean?” conversations in the kitchen

Today Hannah helped make dinner. We chatted … and sang … and entertained zuzu.

Hannah started telling me that some of her friend’s moms don’t teach them to work and cook … and how glad she is that we teach her to work and cook. ha-ha. I reminded her to be grateful when it was time to clean the bathroom. She said she was glad we taught the kids how to do things … like the ‘is it mom clean?” idea. My kids always have to go back and check to see if it will meet my standard. It was a funny conversation. I told her she was required to write an essay on this topic for summer homework. She thought I was serious. Then she told me she thought it was essay like, “EEzay”. We laughed.

Today ‘Liza played the piano and danced.

Today Abe watched the horizon for any sign of the package guy to deliver his newly purchased Lego Hero Factory guy. He bought him with his own money and it was a big deal to him.


Today Tru made “stamps” with his feet on the back porch.

Today my mom saved us all by watching the tots whilst I ran errands. Saved my emotions, I’ll tell ya. It’s good to regroup.

Today ‘Liza watched out the glass door at the kids doing cartwheels and such. She’s a darling.

Today Max smiled and said, “I love you so much mom.” He tells me every day.

Today was Auntie Amy’s birthday. My kids adore Amy.

Today Hannah perfected her cartwheel … then after hours of doing it, strained her ankle. She made a homemade wrap with a burp rag and packing tape. She’s resourceful like that.

06.06.2012

Today Max learned to gargle.

Today ‘Liza found her temper.
She wants to be independent.

Today Tru was teething & tired.

Today the kids made all kinds of shrieks and screams.
Shrieks that should only be reserved for emergencies.
I suppose there must have been lots of emergencies in the backyard…
for afterall, there were tons of rattlesnakes to kill, cowboys to battle, and ninjas to fight.
sigh…
Quiet time … was a blessing for all (neighbors included)

Today Abe helped make dinner.
He sliced zucchini, made rice and raspberry lemonade.
He used a sharp knife for the first time.

Today was chaos despite my efforts to have a routine.

Today the kids had a stuffed animal party.

Today was windy.

Today the garden grew a bit more.

Today I finally finished all my etsy orders.
Hurray for summer vacation.

Today

today is monday.

today is the first day of real summer-break schedule

today max learned to chew gum.

today abe cleaned the baseboards.

today ‘liza stayed close to mom

today tru played with the hose watering the fence
for half the day. = 3 wet outfits

today hannah complained about cleaning bathrooms
“are you really serious that i have to clean the downstairs bathroom. it is so gross.”
the more you complain, the more certain i am that hard work will do you good, my dear.

today max kept spitting all over the carpet and got sent to his room

today i filled up the van with stuff for d.i.
it was a miracle day to make progress on my closet.

today we had a chaotic morning devotional.
babies and little wiggly boys make it less calm, that’s for certain.

today i wondered about our summer … if the kids would really argue half the day, every day.

today hannah mopped the floor (much more happily than cleaning bathrooms)

today for a moment when vacuuming, i felt empowered. i am strong. i am woman.

today the kids are watching newsies. santa fe. seize the day.

today truman kissed the scratch on my arm and said, “oh, honey. scratch? kiss better.”

today our family home evening was eating a “Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without” dinner.
Shepherds Pie. Oh yeah.
Left over mashed potatoes (mixed with a few potato flakes)
canned carrots and corn from 72-hour kits
the beans that no one likes
poor Max said, “WHAT is in that?”
then later said in the funniest voice, “this is NOT my best dinner.”
no one really enjoyed supper. makes me scared for eating only out of food storage.

today … was a day. a good day. a learning day. up and down day. normal day.