Gaining a real testimony of WORK.

A few weeks ago I was weary (ok – I’m always weary)… and I asked Jimmy if he ever tires of work.
“No”
uhhh, you don’t?
Do you ever get tired?
“Yes”
But not of work?
“Nope.”
“If you don’t like work, you’re not going to like the celestial kingdom.”
Well… I like the accomplishment of a job well done, but I’m just so tired.
I’d be fine with work, especially in the celestial kingdom, as long as I have boundless energy.
whine, whine, sigh…

So, my mind has been laboring (ha-ha) on the topic of Work. In theory, I’m all about work and teaching the kids to work hard. But in reality, I spend a lot of effort trying to think of FUN things to do instead of hard work… like Saturday morning family activities in the mountains, etc. I think I feel discouraged because the work is never done.  If the work is never done – then let’s play instead. Oops!  Work first, play later… remember Heather.  Yeah, we can get the work under control… but a job is rarely done (ie… laundry/dishes). BUT – my goal is to find JOY in laboring and in creating the life the Lord wants us to have here as a family.

The rest of the ‘green’ words in this post are quotes from J. RICHARD CLARKE, APRIL 1982 – THE VALUE OF WORK. These are my favorite parts:


Work is a blessing from God. It is a fundamental principle of salvation, both spiritual and temporal. When Adam was driven from his garden home, he was told that his bread must be produced by his physical toil, by the sweat of his brow. Note carefully the words: “Cursed shall be the ground for thy sake” (Moses 4:23; italics added), that is, for his good or benefit. It would not be easy to master the earth; but that was his challenge and his blessing, as it is ours.

We are cocreators with God. He gave us the capacity to do the work he left undone, to harness the energy, mine the ore, transform the treasures of the earth for our good. But most important, the Lord knew that from the crucible of work emerges the hard core of character.

In this commitment, our prophets have led by example. It is said that President Wilford Woodruff loved work. “To him it was a blessing, a privilege. … His toil in the canyons, his sweat in the harvest field, … were all important parts in divine economy. …

“To sweat, was a divine command as much so as to pray.” (Matthias F. Cowley, Wilford Woodruff: History of His Life and Labors)


We have a moral obligation to exercise our personal capabilities of mind, muscle, and spirit in a way that will return to the Lord, our families, and our society the fruits of our best efforts. To do less is to live our lives unfulfilled. It is to deny ourselves and those dependent upon us opportunity and advantage. We work to earn a living, it is true; but as we toil, let us also remember that we are building a life. Our work determines what that life will be.

Work is honorable. It is good therapy for most problems. It is the antidote for worry. It is the equalizer for deficiency of native endowment. Work makes it possible for the average to approach genius. What we may lack in aptitude, we can make up for in performance.

As recommended by Korsaren: “If you are poor, work. … If you are happy, work. Idleness gives room for doubts and fears. If disappointments come, keep right on working. If sorrow overwhelms you, … work. … When faith falters and reason fails, just work. When dreams are shattered and hope seems dead, work. Work as if your life were in peril. It really is. No matter what ails you, work. Work faithfully. … Work is the greatest remedy available for both mental and physical afflictions.” (The Forbes Scrapbook of Thoughts on the Business of Life, 1968)

To teach our children to work is a primary duty of parenthood. Our children have experienced unprecedented prosperity created by parents who have worked hard to provide what they themselves did not have as youngsters. If we are to save our children temporally and spiritually, we must train them to work. THEY MUST LEARN BY ExAMPLE THAT WORK IS NOT DRUDGERY, BUT A BLESSING. Fortunate is the young man or woman who has learned how to work. Wise is the parent who requires children to learn responsibility and to meet acceptable performance standards.

Now, what about our leisure time? How we use our leisure is equally as important to our joy as our occupational pursuits. Proper use of leisure requires discriminating judgment. Our leisure provides opportunity for renewal of spirit, mind, and body. It is a time for worship, for family, for service, for study, for wholesome recreation. It brings HARMONY into our life.

Leisure is not idleness. The Lord condemns idleness. He said, “Thou shalt not idle away thy time, neither shalt thou bury thy talent” (D&C 60:13.) Idleness in any form produces boredom, conflict, and unhappiness. It creates a vacancy of worth, a seedbed for mischief and evil. It is the enemy of progress and salvation.

In the broader sense, work is the means to achieve happiness, prosperity, and salvation. When work and duty and joy are comingled, then man is at his best. Tagore wrote,

Work was instituted from the beginning as the means by which the children of God were to fulfill their earthly stewardship. Work is our divine heritage. Elder Stephen L Richards taught: “Work with faith is a cardinal point of our theological doctrine and our future state—our heaven, is envisioned in terms of eternal progression through constant labor.” (In Conference Report, Oct. 1939, pp. 65, 68.)

Stand Ye in Holy Places

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A Goober Week

I was such a nincompoop this week. Seriously. I was feeling so selfish. I didn’t want to do what I HAD to do. I only wanted to do what I WANTED to do. Lousy. I wanted to be 2 people… one who would have the satisfaction and fulfillment of hard work accomplished … the mom who was a nice, fun mom. And one who got to do fun projects, had no worries or responsibilities. The trouble is I end up battling inside myself because I KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT… I know where my responsibility lies.

I was reviewing my notes from the time I did the 29 Gifts. Each day I made note of the gift I gave, things I was grateful for, and gifts I was given. Most of the gifts were TIME or GENUINE LOVE for my family. During that time, we still had hard things, sick kids, long days and nights dealing with RSV in a wee baby. But my heart was trying to do things for the right reasons … to choose the better part. I value those notes that reminded me that this is where JOY lies.

Here’s hoping for a week with a heart full of the Spirit of God and with LOVE so I can fulfill my responsibilities with a sincere and pure attitude.

Happily Ever After

My hopes for my daughters and sons.
But also very applicable to my life with Jimmy and my family. . .
true story of adventure = mountains to climb.
But the beautiful blessing = the opportunity of ETERNAL LIFE.

a thought for today

This comes from a message from Women’s Conference. I like the goal to focus on these in our fam. I think daily we’re heading towards these, but it’s good to sit down and define what we’re trying to accomplish & BECOME!

What to do with a less-than-ideal bonnet?

You know the days when you’ve completely “lost your bonnet.” We’ve all had days like that when we struggle with all the hard in our life. Well, my bonnet friend was afraid she’d LOST HER BONNET, so I had one shipped to her. The bonnet was “found”. Only, it turned out to be a less-than-beautiful bonnet. The ruffles weren’t the best idea. I had hope for the fabric – after all, it was pioneerish. Well… so we had a good chuckle about the less-than-beautiful bonnet.

So – I’ve been thinking about bonnets. You know this is one of my favorite life comparisons lately. These things are ‘adventures?’ in my life lately.

We might have an ugly bonnet. We don’t want to put it on. But ya gotta . . . in order to do all that hard work without getting burned.

The other day I was fighting with myself about doing the dishes. With all my heart, I didn’t want to conquer that dish pile/mountain. But with all my heart, I knew I had to. It’s only dishes dearie! There are harder mountains to climb than dishes. True. True. It’s alot better than picking up buffalo chips for the fires.

Our bonnet is not the latest trend… but it’s all ya got. Put it on! Simplify. Want less. Be glad for all you do have. Be glad you have a bonnet, even though it’s worn and thin. We get so caught up in the world… buying this… and buying that… wanting this… and wanting that. Move away from the world and head towards Christ. He doesn’t mind an unstylish bonnet.

Bonnets shade the face. In fact, most bonnets are so large, it seems to put side blinders on us. Perhaps this is good. It keeps us headed in the right direction – FORWARD… toward Zion. We may have lots of stretchin’, hopin’, growin’, cryin’, huggin’, prayin’, “throwing our hands up in the air” moments… But it’s Zion – or bust!

imagine … make it happen

I loved this quote I heard in Sharon Eubanks’ Women’s Conference message.I certainly wish imagining would make this principle a bit easier to accomplish every single day. But isn’t it a great goal – to strengthen our home and family by looking for the best in each other, etc. I’m grateful for more days … to work on essential life principles such as this one.

Faith – Hope – Charity

There have been some hard things going on this week with sisters/families in my ward. Indeed, the faithful have really hard things … really hard. Part of my “What about JOY?” lesson coming up involves HOPE. Isn’t that the ultimate JOY – the HOPE that comes through our Savior’s Atonement. Here are 3 prints I made to remind myself to focus on the eternal.

Look Up & LIVE

A few days ago I was driving on I-15 with its endless state of construction. I kept seeing this sign… Look Up & Live. At first I thought it was a reminder to stop texting and watch where you’re driving. Then I realized it was something about the electrical lines. But – I still appreciate the message. It’s an awesome reminder – one that I especially need.

Does LIGHT and TRUTH make me a changed person?

remember a while back when I asked the question…
“How does knowing who you are, as a child of God, affect your every day, your every moment?”
It was the direction I was heading for my R.S. lesson.

Well… it broadened and morphed into this …

I really liked researching this topic.

Q: WHAT IS THE TRUTH & LIGHT WE HAVE RECEIVED?
A: Plan of Salvation, Divine Nature, Eternal Life, Marriage Sealing, Agency, Prophets of God, The Atonement, Baptism, The Priesthood, Repentance, Sacrifice, Atonement, Service, Honesty, Obedience, Temple Work, Communication with God through Prayer. There are many more, just peek in the Gospel Principles book.

Q: HOW DO WE KNOW THE TRUTH OF THESE THINGS?
A: Study, Witness of the Holy Ghost “By the Power of the Holy Ghost, ye may know the truth of all things.” Moroni 10:5

How often do we think about these marvelous truths throughout our day? Do we recognize how blessed we are to have this LIGHT?

Then I shared a few examples of Latter-day saint pioneers who recognized the blessings of LIGHT and TRUTH and let it positively affect their daily life.

Q: What can we do daily to WALK IN THE LIGHT OF TRUTH?
A: so many things … a few we talked about are on this handout.

lastly,
Q: WHAT ARE THE Blessings that come when I fill my mind & heart with LIGHT … and ACT on that Truth?
A: “Consider on the blessed and happy state of those that keep the commandments of God. For behold, they are blessed in all things, both temporal and spiritual.” Mosiah 2:41

Basically, I have been thinking about all the gospel knowledge/testimony I have received. Do I really live differently than others in the world because of the LIGHT I have received. Is it reflected in my attitude about my daily life?

I fear I often don’t live up to the responsibility I have to reflect all that LIGHT and TRUTH … putting it into Action. But this lesson was a good one for me – to start getting on the right track.

p.s. never fail… when I teach a lesson, I have a goober hard time with that very thing in the next week or two. I’ve decided this is one of two things… Satan tries his darndest to discourage us because he knows we have just born testimony of a very important gospel principle. or … Heavenly Father gives us a challenge to conquer to see how firmly we believe it. Wow – climbing mountains over here.

Next Lesson Topic:
Yep … life is hard … so, where does JOY fit in?