Teaching through Attitude


Elder Johnson said this in a message to Institute teachers, and though he was referring to teaching in a class setting, my mind is spinning with all the applications in my life:

in my calling:
my attitude about the bishop & ward leadership, visiting teaching, service, meetings, welfare. My attitude & words speak loads to the sisters in my ward.

in the home:
my attitude about being a stay-at-home mother, my spouse, chores & never-ending messes/tasks, service in the church, scriptures & temple. Wow! My children can tell by my words, tone of voice, and actions, what the true intent is within my heart.

I’m so glad Jimmy shared this thought with me last night as we were falling asleep. Good stuff.

30 Days of Gratitude: Day ONE

I am lovin’ this challenge sponsored by Crystal Wilkerson

This is her idea:


Today’s Journaling Prompt:
Think of a time in your life when a trial ultimately became a blessing.

1. Break-up with my first boyfriend. My heart hurt so much. But – it really did turn out to be a blessing. Now I see that I so wasn’t ready to get married. I needed more time to grow up and figure out who I was. A few years later I met Jimmy… who is the Love of my Life. He is really good for me. His family is kind to me. I’m grateful for what I learned from that hard experience, but am glad things didn’t work out as I wanted at the time.

2. There was a period when we lived in Arizona when I had such a hard personal trial. It was one of the heart aches you keep inside. Jimmy was busy with school and work. I was pregnant with Abe and then we moved to Florida for the summer 2 weeks after we had Abe (which was really hard – but turned out to be a fun adventure). Then I was called to be YW President. I was so young – 28. But it was good for our family. I grew. I learned a lot. I think it helped me rely on the Lord more… to find peace, forgiveness, and love.

This quote perfectly explains what I love about this challenge:

by Rebecca Cooper at Simple as That

It’s great to recognize our blessings, but it’s even better to show our appreciate by our actions.
Love that principle!

part of the ordinary … but beautiful

at a friend’s wedding reception at the Old Stone Church
by the Utah Capitol in Salt Lake City.
I liked the light and silhouette effect.
Photo courtesy Abe.

Aunt Julie and D’liza at dinner tonight.
Zu-Zu likes to suck her hand. Sweet dearie.
The blessed baby slept through all of church.

A blog friend whom I’ve never met (at least in this life)
sent a happy gift certificate to Gymboree.
What fun to shop for Lizzy.
It cheered hearts when we were dealing with sickies here this week.
Thanks Lexie!

neat theme for a friend’s R.S. retreat.
i’d love to be there and soak in all the inspiration about BELIEVING.

i found this on Abe’s desk… his school work from this week.
i love his spelling and what he remembers about our trip.
this little girlie celebrated her 9th birthday over the weekend.
more to come on that later.
she is a dear girl.

a bit of cozy

It’s a cold and windy autumn day. And nothing says cozy home more than the smell of tasty baked goods. During quiet time, I made some delicious pumpkin bread… and boy howdy, does my home smell cozy. What does Boy Howdy mean anyways? I love it – the bread and coziness, that is!

Go – and make this recipe today. Oh – and my R.S. secretary shared this recipe with me. I hope it’s okay to share on the bloggie. I know the recipe didn’t originate with her, but it sure is a good one. I made some mini loaves – they are much easier to get cooked in the middle (like 20-25 min). One of these days I might add some mini chocolate chips to it. Yummers.

a few things of beauty

a few things I came across today that I especially liked. I love subscribing to ILoveLotsOfPizza’s flickr feed because there is always some lovely bit of nature shared.

Also… am excited about
Crystal’s 30 Day Gratitude Challenge
starting on November 1st.
I so want to participate.
Isn’t this a fabulous reminder:

photos by ilovelotsofpizza

gratitude quote by Crystal Wilkerson

awesome-ness

Feeling a bit more positive today.
Jimmy’s home.
It’s Friday.
I’m getting my hair cut.
Yay!
The sun is shining.
The older tots are imagining outside.
Max is eating corn chex.
His favorite.
Tru gave me kisses.
The kids are wearing NYC shirts.
Jimmy also gave them pop rocks.
Pretty much an awesome breakfast.

Don’t every try to squish 4 kids on the front porch step.
Lots of elbows.
Much better. More space.

So – our goal for today:

Be Awesome Today by Lucius Art

jimmy will laugh… and a story for posterity

A few months ago Jimmy and I were conversing about my eating habits. I told him that I really didn’t eat huge servings … and he laughed. “What?”, said I. Then he reminded me about when I eat cereal. I ate a lot of cold cereal when I was pregnant. A lot!

I laughed too because really – I fill the bowl up to the top with cereal and then when I add the milk, it is so full that I can barely take a spoonful without spilling. And carrying it anywhere… not really happenin’. So tonight, even though Jimmy is gone, I knew he’d get a good chuckle out of my bedtime snack. If I ever have ice cream, I usually have 2 little scoops (unless it was a killer day with the kids and I splurge on a medium serving). This ended up as a gynormous serving for me. I promise there is vanilla ice cream somewhere in that bowl. I had to carefully place those last few raspberries. But oh – they are just too tasty!

I gotta grow me some raspberry bushes! Like Pronto!

randoms for a tuesday

One never knows if a 2-year-old is seriously possessed, in need of pain medicine, constipated, hungry, or just plain grouchy. only 358 more days until he turns 3. please tell me he’ll magically become rational.

Abe had his first tooth extracted yesterday at the dentist. Actually it is 2 teeth that were fused together. He was so brave. Plus, he was pleased that the tooth fairy finally got to visit him. She left him a little extra $dough$ because he had to wait until 2nd grade to lose a tooth, it was 2 teeth, and the dentist pulled it. Ouch!

According to Abe, “Nothing is more better than mom’s bread.”

why is it that when my boys go outside to play I have to tell them, “Be nice. No playing about killing or hitting or anything mean. And if you scream or yell at someone you’ll end up in your room. Be nice.”

In Hannah’s alternate reality: “Sometimes I want to live in a big house in the country, run in the fields, and make crowns out of daisies.”

Seriously – dishes are so awful to do when there is sticky syrup dripping off plates… cheese hardened, peanut butter smeared, applesauce encrusted on bowls, silverware everywhere with goobs on them. We have a rule to rinse dishes off before placing them on the counter… obviously nobody regards that rule. Plus, I start blaming the kids for the mess, when really I should have done the dishes before I took a nap. Arggg!

this made my morning:

in regards to that… yesterday I realized I wasn’t emotionally or physically up to my week flying solo as parent. I started feeling selfish and didn’t want to deal with 5 kids by myself (especially all the night time shifts). Am I alone? No way. What was I thinking? I saw a reminder on a blog that encouraged me…

never kill a fly on the cupboard directly above the open mixer of kneading bread. luckily after lots of searching i found the fly on the counter. phew!

speaking of bread, I love my new Gerken’s Cinnamon Drops to add to bread (like great harvest cinnamon burst) and muffins.

if only you could have been a fly on the wall during fhe on monday. “it was one for the record books,” according to jimmy. abe decided we needed a lesson on love and peace. well – fhe was anything but full of peace… isn’t that how it goes sometimes. we had a full-on hitting war between max and tru during the song, “Families can be Together Forever.” Although there were some positive moments like finding scriptures on LOVE in the topical guide, the rest was pretty much bonkers. Press onward we shall.

today a friend asked if we wanted to come pick raspberries from her garden. Boy-Howdy… did we ever! Hannah was in heaven… pretending to be THAT country girl with the daisy crown on her head. She said, “I know it would be a lot of work to live on a farm, but I just think it would be fun.” It sure is fulfilling to do practical work though… especially if it’s food you’ve grown (or in this case… that my friend grew!) and harvested. Thanks for the fabulous and plentiful raspberries Laurie!

“nuggle” or face the day? that is the question.

d’liza got up at 4. so did i. she slept from 9 until 4… we’re so proud.
she must have been tuckered out from her special day yesterday.

really, i shouldn’t complain … but …
unfortunately, i was still wanting some zzzzzzzzz…
not d’liza. she wanted to discover the world by looking all about with eyes wide open.
she didn’t like that i kept putting her in bed with eyes wide open.

enter … jimmy.

after i’d been up for an hour, jimmy took over and got her to sleep,
so i could sleep.
bless him.

anyhoo…
7:30 came around.
i got the kids off to school…
rather… they got themselves off to school
and I gave them loves and good-byes and “make it a great day!”

and i went back to my warm bed
for fifteen more minutes until the other tots came wandering in…
and i tried to convince them to snuggle
which lasted for exactly 9 miliseconds…
or more.
Tru wanted to “nuggle”
but it’s just not in him to hold still for too long.

so…
i declared that it must be time to FACE the DAY.
“oh, mom. not FACE the DAY.
you are so silly mom.”

but face the day it was… for d’liza woke.

so…

snuggle OR face the day…

or perhaps

snuggle AND face the day…

or the best…

snuggle IN ORDER TO face the day.

luckily… d’liza is always up for “nuggling”…
always.

oh… that’s right…

i have a blog. i do. so – what’s up this week around here? …

eye doctor… i think i’m blind when really i’m like 20/25. i’m a perfectionist about my vision. my eye doc is my former bishop… he held eliza for so long. it was cute. she smelled like his cologne the rest of the day.

ob-gyn this week…. ummmm, yah… the things we women experience in this mortal life. i do like my doctors though. won’t see them for 2 years. yay!

dentist today… my tooth hurts… is this another root canal?… please. no.

parent teacher conference. hannah and abe did great. i love seeing them with their teacher and in their classroom.

r.s. … wowsers, i think i’ll learn a lot. i.need.training.mucho. my heart hurts for those who are struggling. my prayer: please fill my mouth with words… the right ones.

it’s raining. the high was 84 on monday … 47 today. i’m not ready for winter. really.

eliza is a dearie. she is starting to recognize us. she’ll look at us for a moment and then you see a SPARKLE of recognition in her eyes… then it spreads to her mouth and she attempts a smile. it’s the dearest little look. she’s being blessed this Sunday.

loved general conference… though with kids around it seemed to go by so fast.

my mind is whirring. sometimes i feel like i’m on a merry-go-round and everything is rushing by so swiftly… spinning … a blur. i occasionally jump off the merry-go-round… take a look at things in a new perspective… re-group… and jump back on… for we gotta keep going, going, going.

max just came up to me and said, “I love you so much, Mom.”  he is quite the kiddo.

i am really good at making cookies at 4 p.m. when really i should be making dinner. but, oh, it’s so much more fun to make cookies… they are optional. dinner is necessary.

wouldn’t it be fun to have an ipad? i have to remind myself that it’s not eternally important… same with a new minivan… or new fun clothes… sigh…

flies… really – can they go away. we killed over 30 flies in 2 days. never leave the doors open.

teaching our 1st relief society on Sunday… theme: we can do hard things… to go along with new ‘Daughters in thy Kingdom’ book.

can’t post without a positive scripture to start the day. i glanced at Proverbs the other day and liked so many things.  good stuff.

off to start the day!!

photo: GO Rhonda GO! by Michael Glasgow